When Girl Likes Boy
December 13th, 2006 | 849 views
Chivalry once dictated that guys should make the first move, but a more liberal society now allows girls to take the initiative. If you’ve ever wanted to take the first step with the guy you like without being too forward about it, these tips should help you get the ball rolling.
| get him to bring you home | |
| Car rides make for great conversations as you can talk about anything and everything. Don’t pass up this chance to get to know him better. More importantly, let him get to know you better, too. |
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| it’s a start If you know you’re both going in the same direction, simply ask him if you can hitch with him and be dropped off somewhere. Most guys won’t refuse the company; if he likes you, he’ll even insist that you hitch with him next time. | one step further If you’re comfortable enough with him (and your house isn’t too out of the way), you can even ask him to bring you home. That way you won’t need to give him your address… you can show him the way yourself! |
| drop a heavy hint | |
| As most girls will attest to, guys can be incredibly dense. You could be sending him all of the right signals and he still wouldn’t get it. In those cases, leading questions or hinting statements might help your cause. |
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| it’s a start You could ask him about what he looks for in a girl, relating his answers to your characteristics in a joking manner. Keep it noncommittal and fun—use surveys in magazines if you want, as long as you keep the wheels in his head turning. | one step further Keep the compliments coming! Say how he’s the greatest/most amazing/nicest guy you know with a matching gentle squeeze of his arm. The goal is to let him know that you look at him differently without professing your undying love for him. |