Gift For The Soul

Fill your life with these blessings that make for a truly meaningful season.#1: Time alone. Life’s filled with people. Those who have it in for you, those only want what’s best for you, some who need you, and others you need in return. Harmony is key, but not if it’s always at the expense of what you really want. And sometimes you’ll only discover what that is if you ask yourself what you would do, think and feel if no one else was around to sway you. So promise yourself some me time—and make it stick. Swim a few laps or watch the clouds roll by. Revel in your thoughts and feelings and your life’s passions will unfold.

#2: Thanksgiving. Life sucks—sometimes. Other times, it’s pretty darn swell if you bothered to notice. Look back on the year that was and say thank you for all the good that did happen. And don’t forget the small stuff like the smell of coffee or fat-free desserts. Better yet, imagine life without these simple pleasures.

#3: Forgiveness. Anger and resentment are ugly words. They’re even uglier feelings. But here’s a secret: letting go and forgiving others doesn’t just let them off the hook—it gives you a sense of closure and peace as well. And while you’re at it, be less judgmental of your own transgressions. You’ll be amazed at how different the world seems once you’ve eased up on yourself.